Math Anxiety in Kids: What 15 Years of Academy Consultations Taught Me
I've lost count of how many parent consultations I've sat through. Fifteen years of running a math academy means thousands of them — some scheduled, some that happened standing in a hallway at 9pm while a kid waited by the door with their backpack still on. And after all of those conversations, I can tell you the single most common thing a parent says when they sit down across from me: "I don't understand it. They're a smart kid. They just freeze." That freeze has a name. It's math anxiety, and it is not the same thing as being bad at math. I want to walk through what I've actually seen, because most of what parents worry about turns out to be the wrong thing, and most of what actually helps turns out to be smaller and more boring than anyone expects. Math Anxiety Almost Never Announces Itself Kids rarely walk up and say "I feel anxious about math." What they say instead is that math is stupid, or that their teacher doesn't like ...